Atlanta’s Premiere Exclusive Space For Men of Color Who Enjoy a Swinger Lifestyle. The Den is a private, fraternal, member’s only, Non-profit organization. The organization exists to support men of color (and those that love them) who share the ideals of the swinger lifestyle and the right of private assembly. We are established solely for the purpose of serving as a common meeting ground for like-minded people. Membership is required and a completed application must be submitted for consideration. Applying applicants must be: (1) amenable to alternative lifestyles, (2) 18+ years of age, and (3) have valid picture identification.